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Wednesday, December 1, 2010

Our new princess

Alhamdulillah..syukur atas kurniaan dan rezeki dari Allah...Tanggal 1 Dec 2010, family kami telah menerima kehadiran ahli baru...yang diberi nama Syarifah Widad Safiyya...hehehe skema plak ayat ni...nama sorg satu bagi, hubby pilih Widad, mama pilih Safiyya, dh lama berkenan dgn nama ni...
Tak sangka plak terbesalin awal, awal 2 minggu plak tu, 30hb 11 tu, dh nak tido dh dlm kul 11.40, abg pun dh tido kt luar, Aqil pun sama..tak ada tanda2 pun nak bsalin ni, tiba2 rasa mcm nak kencing, pahtu bangun air keluar banyak, terkejutlah weh, terus terfikir ni kot air ketuban, (hehehe tak penah tahu sbb Aqil dulu c-sect), terus jerit panggil abang.".abg..air ketuban dh pecah!!" terus member tu bangun, kelam kabut lah weh..terus dia capai beg2 yg telah di packing awal2, kita pun terus masuk bilik air tukar baju yg dah lecun, basah habis lantai kt bilik..takut weh.. hubby bgth adik dia dh nak g hospital dh, mak dia pu ada sama dlm bilik...naik kete terus g KK Specialist, masa ni air dh stop kejap, mungkin sebab duduk, kuar kete air kuar balik...terus g kaunter kt tingkat atas tu, rasa cepat plak sampai, may b tak byk kete, yelah..dh larut mlm dh... masuk bilik, cek jantung, dr Sarva cek serviks belum buka terus check in lah...
Dlm kul 6 pg, mmg rasa tak tahan dh..minta inject, masa ni baru 3 cm..dr kata kul 10 pg cek balik...cek2 je dh 10 cm, terus bw ke labour room, Alhamdulillah..sakit tak lama sgt..tepat kul 11.02 pagi, Safiyya selamat dilahirkan

Tuesday, November 30, 2010

Fetal development - 38 weeks pregnant

Can you tell if you're carrying a boy or a girl? One hint may come from the size of your baby - boys tend to be slightly heavier than girls. Babies at week 39 weigh about 6.8 to 7 pounds / 3 to 3.2 kilograms and continue to build the fat stores that will help regulate body temperature after birth. Your little one's organ systems are fully developed and in place, but the lungs will be last to reach maturity. (Even after your baby is born, it may take a few hours before she establishes a normal breathing pattern.)

Inside pregnancy video: a 3D animated look at a baby during labour and birth. Take a look!
Wondering what colour your baby's eyes will be? Most Asian and African babies usually have dark grey or brown eyes at birth - their dark eyes becoming a true brown or black after the first six months or year. Multi-racial children often turn out to have the most beautiful coloured eyes. Most European babies are born with dark blue eyes and their true eye colour - be it brown, green or blue - may not reveal itself for weeks or months. The colour of your baby's eyes in the first minutes after birth won't last - exposure to light changes a baby's initial eye colour.


Wednesday, November 24, 2010

Dah dapat dah kain..heheh

bestnya..dh dpt dh kain2 yg diidamkan2 selama ini....dh lama dh berkenan tp memandangkan harga yg agak mahal (bg sayalah) niat tu terpaksalah jauh di lubuk hati..lambat laun saya akan beli jugak kain2 ni..hahaha...hari ni ianya menjadi kenyataan..dpt jugak kain sulaman bukit tinggi...huhuhu best giler..tunggu lepas bersalin baru buat baju baru..mana tau lari cutting ke apa...harap2 tidaklah...nak buat baju apa yg sesuai yer?....baju kurung moden ok ka?

Monday, November 22, 2010

Fetal development - 37 weeks pregnant


Your baby weighs close to 6.5 pounds/ 2.8 kilograms and may be about 20 inches/ 50 centimetres long from head to toe. Your baby's head is now cradled in your pelvic cavity - surrounded and protected by your pelvic bones. This position clears some much-needed space for her growing legs and buttocks.

Many babies now have a full head of hair, with locks maybe around one inch/ 2.5 centimeters long. Of course, some babies don't have any hair at all.

Inside pregnancy video: a 3D animated look at a baby in this week of pregnancy. Take a look!
Speaking of hair, most of the downy coat of lanugo that covered your baby from 26 weeks has disappeared, and so has most of the vernix caseosa, the whitish substance that also covers her. Your baby will swallow her lanugo and exterior coating, along with other secretions, and store them in her bowels. These will become your infant's first bowel movement, a blackish waste called meconium.


Tuesday, November 16, 2010

Packing barang2 baby

Monday, November 15, 2010

Fetal development - 36 weeks pregnant----9 bulan sudah...sebulan je lagi

Your baby is still gaining weight - about an ounce/ 28 grams a day. She weighs nearly 6 pounds/ 2.7 kilograms and is 19 inches/ 45 centimetres long from head to toe.

You may begin to feel an increased pressure in your lower abdomen and notice that your baby is gradually dropping. This is called lightening or engagement, and your lungs and stomach will finally get a chance to stretch out a little - breathing and eating should become easier. However, walking may become increasingly uncomfortable - some women say it feels as if the baby is going to fall out. Also, you may still feel as if you need to go to the toilet all the time. Stock up on those last minute nutrients with our eating well guide.

Inside pregnancy video: a 3D animated look at a baby in this week of pregnancy. Take a look!
The good news is that by the end of this week, your pregnancy will be full-term and you could give birth any day now. (Babies between 37 and 42 weeks are considered full-term - a baby born before 37 weeks is premature and after 42 is post-term.) At your weekly visit, your doctor may check to see if you've started dilating (when the cervix opens) and effacing (when the cervix thins). The doctor will also check what position the baby is in, in order to estimate how far the baby has dropped into the pelvis. This information will be entered into your maternity notes so that your doctor in will know the position of the baby when you go into labour.


Tuesday, November 9, 2010

Fetal development - 35 weeks pregnant

Your baby now weighs about 5.25 pounds/ 2.4 kilograms and measures approximately 18 inches/ 45 centimetres from head to toe. His elbow, foot or head may protrude from your stomach when he stretches and squirms about. Soon, as the wall of your uterus and your abdomen stretch thinner and let in more light, your baby will begin to develop daily activity cycles.

This week, your little one is now sporting fingernails and has a fully developed pair of kidneys. His liver can also process some waste products.

Inside pregnancy video: a 3D animated look at a baby in this week of pregnancy. Take a look!
There's much less amniotic fluid and much more baby in your uterus, which has expanded to a thousand times its original size. You've probably put on between 25 and 30 pounds/ 11 and 13.6 kilograms and your weight gain has hit its peak. Even your belly button has got bigger and has popped outward. You may be feeling breathless now that the top of your uterus is up under your ribs. Try getting down on all fours to take deeper breaths. Although the pressure on your bladder will make the bathroom your second home, don't drink any less water - your baby needs the fluids. But you may like to cut down on diuretic drinks like tea and coffee, which will make you have to urinate even more often.


Friday, November 5, 2010

Happy 5th Wedding Anniversary

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

Fetal development - 34 weeks pregnant


Your baby now weighs more than 4.7 pounds/ 2.2 kilograms and is 18 inches/ over 45 centimetres from top to toe. She's filling out and getting rounder - she'll need her fat layers later to regulate her body temperature.

If you don't already talk to your baby, this is a good time to start - at 35 weeks her hearing is fully developed. Don't feel ridiculous if you're already chatting in baby talk. Some evidence shows that newborns pay closer attention to high-pitched tones.

Inside pregnancy video: a 3D animated look at a baby in this week of pregnancy. Take a look!
If you've been nervous about going into premature labour, you'll be happy to know that 99 per cent of babies born at week 35 can survive outside the womb - and most have no major problems. Although your baby's central nervous system is still maturing, her lungs are nearly fully developed by now.

Many women start to notice a tingling sensation or numbness in the pelvic region or pain as they walk. This may be caused by the pelvic joints loosening, ready for labour. If you're terribly uncomfortable, mention it to your doctor and check out our self-help tips.


Sunday, October 31, 2010

Majlis Bakat Aqil di UMS

Monday, October 25, 2010

3D and 4D image

Fetal development - 33 weeks pregnant

skin skull skin skull
Your baby now weighs about 4.2 pounds/ 2 kilograms and measures approximately 17 inches/ 44 centimetres from head to toe. Your baby should already be getting ready for birth by turning upside-down - his head should be pointing down.

Inside pregnancy video: a 3D animated look at a baby in this week of pregnancy. Take a look!
Your doctor will be paying careful attention to your baby's position in the coming weeks - some babies do decide to turn back round again.

Your baby's skull is still quite pliable and not completely joined, so he can ease out of the relatively narrow birth canal. But the bones in the rest of his body are hardening. Your baby's skin is also gradually becoming less red and wrinkled.

If you're a first-time mother, your child's head may move into the pelvis this week and press firmly against your cervix. (This happens for about half of all first-time mothers.) If you're a second-time mum, you can expect this to happen a week before labour - and for some this won't happen until the start of labour. Hoping to manage your labour naturally? Here's all you need to know about natural pain relief.

You may notice that your feet and ankles are quite swollen by the end of the day. Water retention, also known as oedema, is often worse in warm weather and late in the day. Surprisingly, keeping hydrated helps reduce water retention. Your body - particularly your kidneys - and your baby need plenty of fluids, so drink up. If you suddenly feel swollen or puffy in your hands or face, however, call your doctor - it may be a sign of pre-eclampsia.


Saturday, October 23, 2010

It's a girl.....

Smlm ada appointment dgn Klinik Dr Felice Huang,salah seorg pakar OnG di KK Sabah ni, appointment suppose kul 3.45pm, tp dpt jupa doc dlm kul 5.00pm, doc pun sudah napak kepenatan..cian plak...
Kt depan klinik tu plak ada playground, bawa Aqil plak..apa lagi..member tu dh tgk lama dh dr jauh waktu survey klinik aritu, terus dia meluru g sana nak main2..apa lg, cian baba terpaksa entertain Aqil even dh menyirap dgn kerenah Aqil..tak sempat dia tgk doc scan gambar baby...scan 3D and 4D..mmg puas hati dgn layanan doc...charge pun kena rm100...oklah tu..once doc ckp confirm "burger" terus rasa mcm nak nangis, terharu..selama ini ingatkan boy..coz baby lebih kurang mcm Aqil dulu jer..InsyaAllah, kami bakal dpt sepasang anak dh...Doakan saya selamat melahirkan nati with normal delivery..EDD 15hb 12 2010...

Monday, October 18, 2010

Fetal development - 32 weeks pregnant -8 bulan sudah!!!!!!!

Your baby now weighs approximately 3.75 pounds/ 1.7 kilograms and is about 17 inches/ 42 centimetres long from head to toe. Although his lungs won't be fully developed until just before birth, your little one is inhaling amniotic fluid to exercise his lungs and practice breathing.

Inside pregnancy video: a 3D animated look at a baby in this week of pregnancy. Take a look!
Some babies have a head of hair already, others have only a few wisps. Thick hair at birth doesn't necessarily mean thick hair later on but children with fine hair in childhood usually have thinner hair in adulthood.

If your baby is a boy, his testicles should be descending from his abdomen into his scrotum. Sometimes however, one or both testicles won't move into position until after birth. In two-thirds of all baby boys who have undescended testicles at birth, the condition corrects itself by the boy's first birthday.

You're probably gaining a pound/ 450 grams a week, largely because your baby is likely to gain more than half his birthweight during the seven weeks before birth. Make sure you are eating well in these last few weeks.


Wednesday, October 13, 2010

Fetal development - 31 weeks pregnant

Your baby's arms, legs and body continue to fill out - and they are finally proportional in size to her head. She weighs about 3.3 pounds/ 1.5 kilograms and looks more like a newborn. She measures about 16 inches/ 41 centimetres from crown to toe.

Inside pregnancy video: a 3D animated look at a baby in this week of pregnancy. Take a look!
You may notice your baby isn't moving around as much. Don't worry; she's just running out of space in your uterus. As long as you can feel her squirming, you'll know she's just fine. Believe it or not, she still has plenty of growing to do. You can expect her to gain at least two more pounds/ 900 grams before birth.

Your baby's organs are continuing to mature and she is passing water from her bladder: good practice for the urinating she'll do after she's born. Soon you can wonder what your baby is wishing for - brain scans have shown that fetuses have periods of dream sleep around month eight.

You've probably gained three to four pounds/ 1.3 to 1.8 kilograms this month. Gaining a pound/ 450 grams a week is quite normal during the last trimester as your baby has a final growth spurt before birth.


Saturday, October 9, 2010

Fetal development - 30 weeks pregnant

Your baby's lungs and digestive tract are almost fully developed. While your baby may soon slow up growing in length (he measures about 15.7 inches/ 40 centimetres from crown to toe by now), he will continue to gain weight until he's born.

Inside pregnancy video: a 3D animated look at a baby in this week of pregnancy. Take a look!
This week your baby continues to open and shut his eyes. He can probably see what's going on in utero, distinguish light from dark and even track a light source. If you shine a light on your stomach, your baby may move his head to follow the light or even reach out to touch the moving glow. Some researchers think baring your stomach to light stimulates visual development. But don't expect 20/20 vision when your baby is born - newborns can see a distance of only about 8 to 12 inches/ 20 to 30 centimeters. (Children with normal vision don't reach 20/20 vision until about age 7 to 9.) To complete the picture, your baby now has eyebrows and eyelashes.

A pint and a half/ around a liter of amniotic fluid now surrounds your baby but that volume decreases as he gets bigger and has less room in your uterus. As you and the baby continue to grow, don't be alarmed if you feel breathless, as if you can't get enough air; it's just your uterus pressing against your diaphragm. There is a light at the end of the tunnel though. At about 34 weeks (or just before birth, if this is your second or third pregnancy), your baby's head will move down into your pelvis as the baby gets into the right position for birth. That will make breathing and eating a lot easier.


Tuesday, September 28, 2010

Fetal development - 29 weeks pregnant

Your baby now weighs around 2.5 pounds/ 1.1 kilograms and measures about 15 inches/ 38 centimetres from head to toe. In boys, testicles descend from near the kidneys through the groin en route to the scrotum. In girls, the clitoris is relatively prominent because it's not yet covered by the still-small labia. These will grow to cover it in the last few weeks before birth.

Your baby's head is getting bigger, and brain growth is very rapid at this time. Nearly all babies react to sound by 30 weeks.

Inside pregnancy video: a 3D animated look at a baby in this week of pregnancy. Take a look!
Your baby's nutritional needs reach their peak during the third trimester. You'll need plenty of protein, vitamin C, folic acid, iron and calcium (about 200 milligrams is deposited in your baby's skeleton every day), so eat foods rich in these nutrients. The skeleton hardens even more and the brain, muscles and lungs continue to mature. So take a look at our eating well guide to make sure you are getting the right minerals and vitamins.


Monday, September 20, 2010

Fetal development - 28 weeks pregnant----7 months

You're in the home stretch. The third trimester typically starts at week 29 and lasts until week 40 and sometimes even beyond. (Don't worry - 42 weeks is the maximum! After that, a woman usually is induced to give birth.) Most women gain an average of 11 pounds/ 5 kilograms during this trimester.

Inside pregnancy video: a 3D animated look at a baby in this week of pregnancy. Take a look!
By this week, your baby weighs nearly 2.3 pounds/ a little over 1 kilogram and may measure 14.8 inches/ 38 centimeters from top to toe. At about this time, your baby can open his eyes and turn his head in utero if he notices a continuous, bright light shining from the outside. His fat layers are forming and his fingernails appear.

You're probably vacillating between feeling as if you've been pregnant forever and being nervous about labour and birth. Checking off things on your to-do list can help. Start selecting possible baby names and begin thinking about life after the birth as well.


Wednesday, September 15, 2010

Mcm2 pose

Inilah my baby big boy skrg, adui..mcm2 kerenah...kurus melidi je skrg, makan ndak mau...tak th nak buat mcm mn..kena tanya dia btl2 nak makan apa br dia nak makan...

Satu lg skrg ni, suka sgt posing ala2 model bila nak ambik gambar dia....suka2 dia aje tukar2 pose...tiru sapa lah tu suka bergambar...heheheh

And one more thing, pantang mama on laptop nak cek fb, sibuklah dia suruh kita carikan games utk dia main...malas nak layan..tgk2 dia cari sendiri dan jupa plak tu...adui..cerdik betul... pandai plak tu double click kt mana2 button....

Fetal development - 27 weeks pregnant

Your baby now weighs nearly 2 pounds/ 875 grams and measures 14.5 inches/ 36.6 centimeters from head to toe. Her eyes open and close, she sleeps and wakes at regular intervals and she may suck a finger or thumb.

Inside pregnancy video: a 3D animated look at a baby in this week of pregnancy. Take a look!
Sweet dreams, little baby! Some experts believe that babies begin to dream by the 28th week. What do they dream about? No-one knows for certain but the brain is active this week as well. The characteristic grooves on the brain's surface start to appear and more brain tissue develops.

Chalk up any rhythmic movement you may be feeling to a case of the hiccups, which are common this week and throughout the pregnancy. Your baby has them but is breathing in amniotic fluid rather than air. A paper bag can't cure her hiccups, obviously, but an episode usually lasts only momentarily. The sensation for you may be strange but not unpleasant.

Since your uterus is now up near your rib cage, you may now find yourself short of breath if you haven't already. Starting now and continuing through the last three months of pregnancy, you may be plagued by leg cramps, hemorrhoids, varicose veins and an itchy abdomen. Are pregnancy discomforts getting you down? Try some natural remedies to perk you up.

If you were found to be Rh-negative earlier in pregnancy, you'll probably be tested for Rh antibodies this week or next and have an anti-D injection to combat the incompatibility. You may be offered a repeat injection at 36 weeks.

Tuesday, September 14, 2010

Jalan2 cari makan air krim di Jesselton

Friday, September 10, 2010

Selamat Hari Raya Aidil Fitri 2010

Gelagat Aqil time nak suruh bergambar dgn mama dia..adui..bikin panas...

Dgn baba ok sket...

Ambik gambar sendiri2 jak..

Selamat Hari Raya pada semua pembaca blog ni..heheh (ada ker?)...tahun ni turn kami beraya di KK, InsyaAllah, thn depan kami beraya berempat di Jerteh...mcm biasa, kalu beraya di KK ni mmg mcm tak rayalah (compare to my hometown, mmg sakan kami beraya, kunjungi rumah saudara dan kawan2 semua)...kt sini at the 1st day,pagi2 lagi hubby g solat raya di masjid UMS, then saya plak pagi2 lg masakkan nasi beriani (kami berdua je yg makan, huhuhu penat2 je masak byk2, mmg teda org dtg rumah pun), lepas hubby balik dr solat, snap2 gambar dulu, adui..entah apa2 je gambar, semua plan tak jadi....then ptg hubby ajak g berjalan rumah kawan dia di Petagas, mmg best makan2 kt situ

Thursday, September 2, 2010

Fetal development - 25 weeks pregnant

The baby now weighs nearly 1.5 pounds/ 660 grams and is approximately 13.5 inches/ 35 centimeters long from crown to heel. He makes breathing movements but has no air in his lungs yet. At 26 weeks, fetal brain scans show response to touch. If you shine a light on your abdomen, your baby will turn his head, which according to researchers, means his optic nerve is working.

Inside pregnancy video: a 3D animated look at a baby in this week of pregnancy. Take a look!
At every antenatal visit, your doctor will take your blood pressure and do tests on a sample of your urine. In this way, pregnancy-related conditions such as pre-eclampsia and diabetes can be detected and treated.

Your fingers, wrists and hands may be feeling achy and numb. The carpal tunnel in the wrist is swollen, as are many other tissues in your body. Nerves that run through the tunnel end up pinched, creating pressure that manifests itself as shooting or burning pain. Wearing a brace may help; so will taking vitamin B6. Talk to your doctor about other ways to cope. Find out about natural remedies for numb or achy fingers.


Monday, August 23, 2010

Fetal development - 24 weeks pregnant

Alhamdulillah, diam tak diam dh cecah 24 minggu sudah, baby dh 6 perut masih lg kecil, taklah nak napak g cek, berat turun 1 kg sebab berpuasa, nurse ckp baby besar, tak padan dgn usia dia.yeke? takut plak aku...kepala masih di atas..skrg dh ok sket, no more muntah2..Alhamdulillah...

Your fetus weighs more than 1.3 pounds/ 600 grams. Though she still has little body fat and her skin is thin and fragile, she's now well-proportioned. Her brain is growing rapidly, and she is starting to fill the space in your uterus. From crown to heel she could measure 11.8 inches/ 30 centimeters. If you went into labour at this time, however, many obstetricians and doctors would make every effort to halt the progress of premature labour to enable your baby to continue maturing.

You may be noticing faint, red or brown streaks known as striae or stretchmarks on your abdomen, hips and breasts. While creams won't erase them, wearing a supportive bra may help prevent or minimise them on your breasts. They are very common at this stage of the pregnancy - about 90 per cent of women get them. After you've given birth, the reddish or brown pigmentation in the stretchmarks gradually fades, and the streaks become lighter than the surrounding skin.

Also, your eyes may be light-sensitive and may feel gritty and dry. This is a perfectly normal pregnancy symptom known as “dry-eye”. To ease your discomfort, use an “artificial tears” solution to add moisture.


Sunday, August 22, 2010

Macam2 pose

Gambar Aqil sepanjang duk dlm kete g jalan2..pantang napak kamera terus nak pose mcm2..haiya.......anak aku

Monday, August 16, 2010

Fetal development - 23 weeks pregnant


Your baby now weighs a little over one pound/ 500 grams and measures about 11.4 inches/ 29 centimeters from crown to heel. Her hearing is well established and she can make out a distorted version of your voice, the beating of your heart and your stomach rumblings. Loud noises often heard in utero, such as the barking of a dog next door or the roar of a vacuum cleaner, probably won't bother your child when she hears them outside the womb.

Some studies seem to indicate that the unborn prefer classical music.

In addition to advances in your baby's hearing, her lungs are developing to prepare for breathing. She's swallowing but she normally won't pass her first stool (called meconium) until after birth.

If your baby were to be born now, she would have a small chance of survival (about 16 per cent) with the right care. Every day in the womb makes a difference at this stage. If she was born at 24 weeks her chance of survival would rise to 44 per cent.

As for you, you may feel clumsy now that your centre of gravity has shifted. Your gums may bleed when you brush your teeth and your belly button, once an 'innie', may now stick out. Don't worry. It'll revert to its pre-baby state soon after you give birth.

The middle months are a good time to think about a holiday. Find out all you need to know from suntans to vaccinations in our travel section.

• Note: Experts say every baby develops differently - even in utero. These fetal development pages are designed to give a general idea of how a fetus grows in the womb.


Wednesday, August 11, 2010

Selamat Berpuasa semua

Alhamdulillah....arini semua umat Islam akan berpuasa selama sebulan... ini adalah kali kedua juga aku pregnent di bulan puasa, time Aqil dulu rasanya dia dlm 2 bulan dlm kandungan, dan adik dia pula ni dlm 5 bulan...byk beza gak ni time pregnent perut dh besar..harap2 aku dpt berpuasa selama sebulan..InsyaAllah

Monday, August 9, 2010

Fetal development - 22 weeks pregnant

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The baby now weighs almost one pound/ 430 grams, measures nearly 11 inches/ just over 27 centimeters long from crown to heel, and is proportioned like a newborn, albeit a thinner version since her baby fat hasn't yet developed. Although she's getting heavier every day, her skin still appears wrinkled because she needs to gain more weight. The lips are distinct and the eyes are formed, though the iris (the coloured part of the eye) still lacks pigment. The pancreas, essential in the production of hormones, is developing steadily.

Even this early, the first signs of teeth appear in the form of tooth buds beneath the gum line. Before you know it, your baby will be born, and soon after, her first teeth will come through.

You've probably gained between 12 and 15 pounds/ 5.4 and 6.8 kilograms. Starting now, you'll begin to put on weight more steadily, averaging about half a pound/ 225 grams per week. You may crave certain foods and you may notice an increased (but not bloody) vaginal discharge. Both are a normal part of being pregnant.

Is your husband feeling left out? Point him to our section dedicated to new dads.

• Note: Experts say every baby develops differently - even in utero. These fetal development pages are designed to give a general idea of how a fetus grows in the womb.


Tuesday, August 3, 2010

Fetal development - 21 weeks pregnant


The fetus now weighs about three-quarters of a pound/ 360 grams. Up until now she has been measured from crown to rump but from this point on the measurement will be from crown to heel. And from crown to heel she is approximately 10.5 inches/ 27 centimeters long. The eyebrows and eyelids are fully developed and the fingernails cover the fingertips.

Your baby can now hear your conversations. If you talk, read or sing to your baby, expect her to hear you. Some studies have found that newborns will suck more vigorously when read to from a book they heard frequently in utero. If you want to try, pick a book now and read it out loud. Make sure you won't mind reading it over and over once the baby is here. It may be your baby's favourite bedtime story for a long time after birth.

You're probably feeling quite comfortable these days. This, in fact, may be the most enjoyable time in your pregnancy. You're not too big yet, and the usual aches and pains associated with pregnancy like nausea, frequent urination and fatigue are for the most part gone. Relax and enjoy while you can. The third trimester is just around the corner and with it comes some mild discomfort from carrying a baby that is nearly full-term.

Sunday, August 1, 2010

Amalan-amalan ketika mengandung

  1. Banyak bertaubat kepada Allah s.w.t atas segala dosa yang telah dilakukan
  2. Sentiasa menutup aurat mengikut ajaran Islam
  3. Membaca ayat-ayat Al-Quran

Surah-surah amalan ketika mengandung

    • Al-Fatihah dan ayat Kursi
    • Seluruh surah Yassin
    • Seluruh surah At-Taubah
    • Seluruh surah Yusuf
    • Seluruh surah Luqman
    • Seluruh surah Maryam
    • Surah An-Nahl ayat 78

وَاللّهُ أَخْرَجَكُم مِّن بُطُونِ أُمَّهَاتِكُمْ لاَ تَعْلَمُونَ شَيْئًا وَجَعَلَ لَكُمُ الْسَّمْعَ وَالأَبْصَارَ وَالأَفْئِدَةَ لَعَلَّكُمْ تَشْكُرُونَ

Dan Allah mengeluarkan kamu dari perut ibu kamu dengan keadaan tidak mengetahui sesuatupun dan Dia mengurniakan kepada kamu pendengaran dan penglihatan serta hati (akal fikiran); supaya kamu bersyukur.

    • Surah Al-A'raf ayat 189

هُوَ الَّذِي خَلَقَكُم مِّن نَّفْسٍ وَاحِدَةٍ وَجَعَلَ مِنْهَا زَوْجَهَا لِيَسْكُنَ إِلَيْهَا فَلَمَّا تَغَشَّاهَا حَمَلَتْ حَمْلاً خَفِيفًا فَمَرَّتْ بِهِ فَلَمَّا أَثْقَلَت دَّعَوَا اللّهَ رَبَّهُمَا لَئِنْ آتَيْتَنَا صَالِحاً لَّنَكُونَنَّ مِنَ الشَّاكِرِين

Dialah (Allah) yang menciptakan kamu semua dari (hakikat) diri yang satu dan Dia mengadakan daripada hakikat itu pasangannya (diri suami isteri), untuk bersenang-senang (bertenang tenteram) satu diri kepada yang lain. Ketika suami mencampuri isterinya, mengandunglah dia dengan kandungan yang ringan, serta teruslah dia dengan keadaan itu (ke suatu waktu). Kemudian ketika dia merasa berat (dan menaruh bimbang) berdoalah suami isteri itu kepada Tuhan mereka (dengan berkata): Sesungguhnya jika Engkau (wahai Tuhan kami) mengurniakan kami nikmat yang baik, tentulah kami menjadi orang-orang yang bersyukur

Link laman-laman web Al-Quran

· Syed Aftab Ali Bukhari - bacan Al-Quran dan terjemahan dalam bahasa Inggeris

· Al-Islam - bacaan Al-Quran dan terjemahan dalam pelbagai bahasa termasuk bahasa melayu.

  1. Membaca doa
    • Doa mohon rahmat - Surah Ali-Imran ayat 8-9

رَبَّنَا لاَ تُزِغْ قُلُوبَنَا بَعْدَ إِذْ هَدَيْتَنَا وَهَبْ لَنَا مِن لَّدُنكَ رَحْمَةً إِنَّكَ أَنتَ الْوَهَّابُ رَبَّنَا إِنَّكَ جَامِعُ النَّاسِ لِيَوْمٍ لاَّ رَيْبَ فِيهِ إِنَّ اللّهَ لاَ يُخْلِفُ الْمِيعَادَ

(Mereka berdoa dengan berkata): Wahai Tuhan kami! Janganlah Engkau memesongkan hati kami sesudah Engkau beri petunjuk kepada kami dan kurniakanlah kepada kami limpah rahmat dari sisiMu; sesungguhnya Engkau jualah Tuhan Yang melimpah-limpah pemberianNya. Wahai Tuhan kami! Sesungguhnya Engkaulah yang akan menghimpunkan sekalian manusia, untuk (menerima balasan pada) suatu hari (hari kiamat) yang tidak ada syak padanya. Sesungguhnya Allah tidak memungkiri janjiNya.

    • Doa zuriat yang soleh - Surah Ali-Imran ayat 38

هُنَالِكَ دَعَا زَكَرِيَّا رَبَّهُ قَالَ رَبِّ هَبْ لِي مِن لَّدُنْكَ ذُرِّيَّةً طَيِّبَةً إِنَّكَ سَمِيعُ الدُّعَاء

Ketika itu Nabi Zakaria berdoa kepada Tuhannya, katanya: Wahai Tuhanku! Kurniakanlah kepadaku dari sisiMu zuriat keturunan yang baik; sesungguhnya Engkau sentiasa Mendengar (menerima) doa permohonan.

    • Doa mohon ampun - Surah Ali-Imran ayat 192-194

رَبَّنَا إِنَّكَ مَن تُدْخِلِ النَّارَ فَقَدْ أَخْزَيْتَهُ وَمَا لِلظَّالِمِينَ مِنْ أَنصَارٍ رَّبَّنَا إِنَّنَا سَمِعْنَا مُنَادِيًا يُنَادِي لِلإِيمَانِ أَنْ آمِنُواْ بِرَبِّكُمْ فَآمَنَّا رَبَّنَا فَاغْفِرْ لَنَا ذُنُوبَنَا وَكَفِّرْ عَنَّا سَيِّئَاتِنَا وَتَوَفَّنَا مَعَ الأبْرَارِ رَبَّنَا وَآتِنَا مَا وَعَدتَّنَا عَلَى رُسُلِكَ وَلاَ تُخْزِنَا يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ إِنَّكَ لاَ تُخْلِفُ الْمِيعَادَ

Wahai Tuhan kami! Sebenarnya sesiapa yang Engkau masukkan ke dalam Neraka maka sesungguhnya Engkau telah menghinakannya dan orang-orang yang zalim tidak akan beroleh seorang penolong pun. Wahai Tuhan kami! Sesungguhnya kami telah mendengar seorang Penyeru (Rasul) yang menyeru kepada iman, katanya: Berimanlah kamu kepada Tuhan kamu, maka kami pun beriman. Wahai Tuhan kami, ampunkanlah dosa-dosa kami dan hapuskanlah daripada kami kesalahan-kesalahan kami dan matikanlah kami bersama orang-orang yang berbakti (yang banyak berbuat kebajikan). Wahai Tuhan kami! Berikanlah kepada kami pahala yang telah Engkau janjikan kepada kami melalui Rasul-rasulMu dan janganlah Engkau hinakan kami pada hari kiamat; sesungguhnya Engkau tidak memungkiri janji.

    • Doa anak tetap mengerjakan sembahyang - Surah Ibrahim ayat 40-41

رَبِّ اجْعَلْنِي مُقِيمَ الصَّلاَةِ وَمِن ذُرِّيَّتِي رَبَّنَا وَتَقَبَّلْ دُعَاء رَبَّنَا اغْفِرْ لِي وَلِوَالِدَيَّ وَلِلْمُؤْمِنِينَ يَوْمَ يَقُومُ الْحِسَابُ

Wahai Tuhanku! Jadikanlah daku orang yang mendirikan sembahyang dan demikianlah juga zuriat keturunanku. Wahai Tuhan kami, perkenankanlah doa permohonanku. Wahai Tuhan kami! Berilah ampun bagiku dan bagi kedua ibu bapaku serta bagi orang-orang yang beriman, pada masa berlakunya hitungan amal dan pembalasan

  1. Kehidupan suami isteri ketika mengandung akan mempengaruhi janin. Oleh itu terdapat adab-adab yang perlu bagi suami dan isteri
    • Adab isteri terhadap suami ketika mengandung
      1. Mengasihi dan menyayangi suami
      2. Menjaga perkataan terhadap suami
      3. Tidak terlalu cerewet
      4. Menjauhi daripada perasaan yang tidak baik terhadap suami
      5. Menghargai pandangan dan nasihat yang diberikan suami, orang tua serta ahli keluarga
      6. Menghormati kaum muslimin dan muslimat serta berbuat baik kepada mereka
      7. Menjauhi dari mengumpat dan menghina orang lain.
  • Adab suami terhadap isteri
  1. Menunjukkan kasih sayang terhadap isteri
  2. Jujur dan setia pada isteri serta tidak memberi layanan yang kejam dan kasar
  3. Selesaikan selisih faham
  4. Tidak mudah menjatuhkan talak atau mengeluarkan perkataan yang sama sepertinya.
  5. Kerap melakukan sembahyang sunat dan mendoakan isteri dan anak selamat

Saturday, July 31, 2010

Asyraf juara Imam Muda

KUALA LUMPUR 30 Julai – Setelah tiga bulan bersiaran, program pencarian imam di kalangan generasi muda iaitu Imam Muda akhirnya menobatkan Muhammad Asyraf Mohd. Ridzuan sebagai juara.

Kemuncak program pertama di dunia yang mengangkat peranan imam ke kaca televisyen itu berlangsung di Dewan Muktamar, Kompleks Pusat Islam malam ini.

Program itu turut mendapat perhatian dan permintaan daripada beberapa stesen penyiaran gergasi luar negara termasuk salah sebuah rangkaian televisyen di Switzerland dan Turki.

Beliau mengenepikan pencabar terdekatnya Hizbur Rahman Omar Zuhdi.

Selain trofi, sijil penyertaan dan kad tauliah yang diiktiraf Jabatan Agama Islam Wilayah Persekutuan (JAWI) hadiah turut merangkumi tawaran kontrak Imam Ratib di salah sebuah masjid di ibu kota, biasiswa pakej ‘berlian’ pengajian ke Universiti Antarabangsa Al-Madinah, Arab Saudi, pakej menunaikan haji dan umrah, kereta Proton Exora serta wang tunai RM20,000.

Hadiah lain termasuklah pakej percutian ke Bandung selama 4 hari 3 malam, pakej perabot jati bernilai RM10,000, pakej spa Maghribi, komputer riba Apple Macbook Pro dan sebuah iPhone 3G.

Hizbur Rahman pula membawa pulang hadiah pakej ‘emas’ pengajian ke Universiti Antarabangsa Al-Madinah, Saudi Arabia, pakej umrah, wang tunai RM15,000, pakej percutian ke Bandung 4 hari 3 malam dan pakej perabot jati bernilai RM7,000.

Hadiah lain termasuklah sebuah komputer riba Apple Macbook Pro, iPhone, pakej spa Maghribi di samping trofi, sijil penyertaan dan kad tauliah daripada Jawi.

Hadiah disampaikan oleh Menteri di Jabatan Perdana Menteri, Datuk Jamil Khir Baharom.

Peserta Imam Muda dipandu oleh pengetua, Datuk Hassan Mahmood serta dua tenaga pengajar iaitu Ustaz Shahrizan Daud dan Syed Mohd. Norhisyam Tuan Padang.

Monday, July 19, 2010

19 weeks pregnant

You're halfway there! The top of your uterus now reaches your belly button and will grow about a centimeter per week. The fetus measures around 6 inches/ 15 centimeters long from crown to rump and weighs about 9 ounces/ 240 grams.

She has started to swallow amniotic fluid, and her kidneys continue to make urine. Hair on the scalp is sprouting.

Sensory development reaches its peak this week. The nerve cells serving each of the senses - taste, smell, hearing, seeing and touch - are now developing in their specialised areas of the brain. Nerve cell production slows down as existing nerve cells grow larger and make more complex connections. If you're carrying a baby girl, she already has roughly six million eggs in her ovaries. By the time she's born, she'll have about one million.

You may have felt the kicking and somersaulting of your growing baby. At times, you might find that she is so mobile that you can't sleep. The next 10 weeks or so will be your baby's busiest and most active time, until the womb gets too crowded. Two will soon be three and that will mean lots of changes, so have a look at our sex and relationships section.

Saturday, July 17, 2010

Aqil at Juara Rakyat's Program, Tuaran